NOW READ THIS FROM BADBOY:
Marius and I spent a long time trying to decompose what he does that makes him so successful (btw, he doesn't see it as succesful, he sees it as just being himself, sounds familiar?), and what we came up with that there are actually two parts of success:
1. The external part, the skills, tools and techniques, knowing what, when and how to say things, that is what I always taught guys with great success, in fact there is nobody that has this direct, and powerful style on the whole planet, I am the best! ... well at least this is what all those pua-awards they give me for direct game say
LOL2. (more importantly) the INTERNAL part, your "inner game", your sense of self, strength, power and peace. Your musculinity and raw male power, energy and presence.
Both will get you laid but combined they will make you a MONSTER! And that is not an opinion but a FACT!
Lets examine the problem; a lot of PUA guys after a long, long, looooong and painful time actually develop some skill for meeting women, perhaps even get laid regularly, but guess what? They are incapable of entering and sustaining the relationship with a woman, or even if they do they become her "bitch"... you know the process it has been written about many times it is how an "alpha guy" becomes a "beta guy"... NOT FUN! For example, without saying any names or pointing fingers there are PUAs (even PUA trainers) who drag their girlfriends (even wifes) with them, but look at their dynamics... who is wearing the pants in that relationship? NOT PLEASANT!
Did you seee Marius with his women? He is "alpha" by definition (without even trying)... it is just him! Women just love the man because he is strong, solid and masculine, but what he has is this undying unshakeable masculine strength that just radiates something women are totally attracted to.
Now don't you think I tried? I tried to "bottle" what Marius has and make a product out of it and show the guys how he gets the girls. So I took a camera guy to film Marius doing the approaches, and guess what? We threw the film away! IT WAS USELESS! Why? Because every single interaction just looked staged because who could EVEN BELIEVE that a sitting girl would stand up to talk to a guy who just showed up, trying to convince him to call her? I AM BEING SERIOUS here!!! And guess what, we were trying to do things slower so guys can actually see how it is done! SHIT!
But here is an important question which you by now must be asking yourself?
"how does any of this affect me at all? surely I could have a better inner game but I'm ok without it, I don't want a girlfriend, all I want is just to get laid"
Now here comes the SAD TRUTH! The tools and techniques that you learn will get you laid with a lot of regular girls but (and no PUA trainer will actually admit to that) they FAIL miserably when it comes to super hot chicks!!!
Look, the super hot chicks can "smell your fear" they are soo observant and have such a high level of social calibration that they see throuhg you, like x-ray eyes they can just see every single weakness and you are blown out even before you say hello to them!!!
Imagine this, you are a guy and you see a fat, bearded woman approach you... do you want to have sex with her??? HELL NO!!! But here's a kicker... How long does it take for you to KNOW that you don't want to have sex with her?... YES YOU KNOW ... it is INSTANT!!!
The same is with the super hot chicks, they just have to look at you, look through you and they can instanly sense that you are not the MAN for her. No routine, no trick, no bullshit is going to change any of that... she just sees you like you'd see the fat bearded chick, no matter how much she tries or what she does, you are just not going there!!!
Can you believe that??? Lets just take a small test, think for a while... have you actually seen any PUA who is in a relationship with a truly attractive woman? If you did who seems to have had the "upper hand" the girl or the "man-bitch"? YEAH YOU KNOW IT ... and the reason why they can't have what they want is because they don't have the "inner strength" that women look for, something that not only they want but also NEED.
Super hot women don't just want a strong, masculine, powerful man (and I'm not talking about physical stuff) they NEED, they really experience the deep NEED for such guy and they are even prepared to fight other women for it. Why do they need that? There is a deep psychological reason (actually many) for that but in essence their extreme femininity must be balanced by extreme masculinity. Her willowy, fragile nature has to be grounded by someone strong and firm, unchangable... SHE NEEDS THIS, it is not a matter of just personal sexual preference but a matter of physical and mental need.
IT IS JUST NATURE! You can't fight the nature... try convincing a lion that he is a bird... it just won't work because every atom of his body KNOWS that he is a lion... same works for people. Every atom of hot, model-looking girl tell her that she is a woman and that every atom ressonates a strong need and desire for someone who is the exact opposite of her... a MAN whose every atom of his body ressonates with the knowledge that he is a MAN!
Sow what does it have to do with Marius at all??? Well, he is such a man and women just know and feel it...this is why he gets the best chicks, this is why he teaches guys how to get those chicks...
I mean it is ok if your goals are just to be with regular "garden variety" girls you can see on the street or in a club... but if your taste is for the girls you can see in magazines, fashion shows, TV etc... don't know what I'm talking about??? GO WATCH FASHION TV!!! That is what I'm talking about !!! If your tastes are there then
1. You must understand that YES! YOU CAN HAVE THEM!... have you seen the boyfriends of those models??? They are often NOT WHAT YOU WOULD EXPECT!!! I know a gorgeous girl who is with this abusive toothless looser ... (and I am not paraphrasing it, ghe guy misses 3-4 front teeth, 2 ar rotten black) ... it blows my mind when I see it... my whole reality and sense of right and wrong goes out of the window.
2. You must get your inner game sorted, you have to change, grow, eveolve from the person you are now into a MAN, strong, powerful, uncompromising... and that is something Marius does.
See, I've been trying to bottle what he has and sell it to people for quite a long time now! Why? Yes it is a good business, I mean what if I had a magic pill, a cure, a book, CD or DVD that I can give you that will completely transform you to that guy who dates the girls from Fashion TV? How much would you pay? 10, 1000, 100000 ??? I say such product would be priceless, I could ask for any money...
BUT I DON'T have it!!!
In all that what did I discover??? Well, teh guys that just hang out with Marius just over time naturally change, evolve, some of his "mojo" just rubbs off... take for example the summer camp again, he just stood there in a club with a student when a girl approached him and asked him to take her home... How the fuck does that happen??? did it ever happen to you? For Marius it is a common occurance. Now he gave the girl to the student (hoping he'll close that deal)!!! ... he didn't btw, so sad... I mean how can you fuck up if someone gives you a horny girl who is ready to have sex and wants you to take her home?
Anyway the point being is in all that trying to create a product out of him I accidentally discovered a product... it is HIM! He is the product! People just get better naturally hanging out with him, talking to him and learning from him. I don't know how it works but it does work.
Look, I took a bunch of guys with Marius to Prague for new year's eve and he completely transformed them in just a few days time their whole life, their boundaries moved, shifted, changed... it was incredible to watch. Then I brought my friend who was in a really bad shape and in just a few days with Marius he become a completely different person.
If summer camp is the "mental software reinstall" then the time with Marius is like hardware upgrade!!! it is like suddenly you discover that you've got all this printers, scanners, networks, sound systems, cameras sitting right there but you never plugged them in!!! Amazing stuff!!!
So in all this I finally realized what I can do!!! I can organize secret events where Marius is going to FIX YOUR INNER GAME and that is great because NOBODY on this planet is able to do that at all!!! I know there are a lot of products out there on the matter but guess what, most of you have seen them and what happened??? Nothing!!! They are all rehashing something they learned in an NLP course... well how do you teach someone something you can't reproduce yourself??? How do you fix someone's inner game when your own is broken?
The only way is to find someone who has a quality that you want and model yourself after that person, learn from that person and that is what I wanted to do with Marius!
But he is also a strange guy... see he has several other businesses (not counting the modeling agency) so if he teaches the guys he actually loses money! I can't charge you that much to make up for his loss of earnings... But luckilly he (just like me) loves to do this, he sees it as fun, challenging holiday
... I mean, ask the guys that went for the new year's course... hw much did we earn from you??? Nothing!!! We ended up spending cash there and then on students!heres another post from marius on similar topic, why the hottest chicks choose masculine guys.
“your last newsletter was great marius. I do believe what you say but you do make it sounds pretty easy. I need proof Do you have anything that i can lean more about your simplicity. And how you do it better than most ever though you’re not the best looking or model looking guy. So how can you get better women over the so-called "physically perfect looking guys". It has to be more than looks and money” – A.M.
First of all, there is no such thing as physically perfect guys, you may think the guy that’s fit, muscular, toned and sporty (in comparison to yourself) has better chances than you with pretty girls, think again. It is often that those guys just stand alone holding on to their beer bottle, watching a chubby, balding, hairy guy make out with the girl they had their eyes on the whole night (at least in my case)
If you paid attention to our DNA materials you would know about the three factors of attraction; looks, money and personality. Either of those three will get you laid, all of those will get you laid good.
Having said that; all that is just the veneer I talked about in my previous email, it is something you “project” to people…
Let me explain
When you look at the pretty girl in a club you see she is cute, sexy, nice, smells good, great smile, white teeth, laughs at your jokes and her eyes, oh my god, they are so beautiful and mesmerising and she just happens to like you… what do you do? You take her home and wow! She is amazing in bed, she gives great blowjob, moans like a porn star and just begs you for more… perfection…
But in the morning
In the light of a day, when makeup is gone, you start to notice that she is actually quite ordinary, a little short, a little pudgy; you notice a scar, a birthmark and cellulite. She wakes up and you start to talk, you notice she misses a few back teeth and her hair is matted and not as shiny as last night. She washes herself and you notice her eyes are dark and she’s got quite a few extra pounds. You feel confused, conflicted but you still hang on to that thread, the sex was just too good. You start to date and every time you bring her home you try to rekindle that passion but every time it just seems to drift away further and further.
Sounds familiar?
When I was about sixteen years old, I discovered something interesting, an universal truth if you will.
When you take of the woman clothes, you strip away her magic, and all that is left is just her
This is why I like dating strippers; you know exactly what you get, and by dressing up she can only look better rather than worse. There are very few women out there that look better naked than in their clothes (and that’s a fact nobody can deny).
My favourite girlfriends are models, they come “pre-tested”, it is kind of seal of trust (like angus beef in a sense) they tend to be beautiful according to trusted brands (Armani,Versace,Prada) just without the hard emotional garbage that strippers carry and I have no time or energy to deal with in a relationship.
Let me ask you something; have you ever had hot passionate sex with a top model? If you haven’t I suggest you try and definitely aim to have them in your life.
I’ll try to describe it for you
Imagine a woman so beautiful, sexy and responsive to your every touch, you love looking at her, touching her smooth perfect skin, kissing her passionately in the bed, making love to her and then taking her powerfully, ravishing her and truly enjoying every second with her; having her as your sex toy, exploring her body, her taste. Now that’s what I’m talking about.
Don’t get me wrong; the girl doesn’t have to be either a model or a stripper for you to experience that, but she has to be that beautiful to take your breath away. I say if you’re learning to be good with women, then you might as well set your goals to what you really want, rather than just some random chick you met in a club yesterday.
So what does all this have to do with your question?
I just gave you a contrast of two things to illustrate the idea that you must accept before moving forward.
When you look at the woman, any woman, anywhere; in a club, on the street, mall, petrol station or a book store, what you really see is not “just her” you see a lot more. You see her clothes, haircut, bracelets, necklaces, lipsticks, posture, body language, and a million subtle cues you can’t even describe.
All this is just “magic”, or rather the “veneer” I talk about, her “outer self” her “presentation”. This my friend is NO ACCIDENT! She carefully created all that, sometimes painstakingly over many hours so she can have that “wow” effect you had the first time you saw her.
Women are very good, they are experts at hiding flaws and emphasising good things about themselves. Notice if a girl has large breast she’ll often wear something tight or revealing, focusing your gaze there. She’ll wear a large necklace finishing near her cleavage and all that will become more obvious and indiscreet if she hasn’t got any other things to show.
Magic!
Women are real wizards at creating magic to enchant you and seduce you into liking them enough to overcome your fear of approach so she can have a choice of men to chose from; just like shit attracts the flies they attract the untrained eye to trap into their little web and use you either for buying them drinks, being their boyfriend or just passionate night of sex.
Remember, you are the chooser! All women compete with each other, putting their goods on display so you can choose them.
The problem is
Too many guys choose too few women. There is a limit on how many drinks can she drink, how many guys can she date and how many men will she fuck. So even though you chose her, she’ll go home only with the guy that meets her “price” and that is where we get in
Your three factors of attraction (looks, money and personality) can be faked just like women fake things when they put on the padded bra or wear a corset and high heels. This is the veneer than any guy can build and create a “story” that will seduce women in believing that you’re “that guy”.
This is what “players” do
Sadly… this will NOT get you the hottest girls. This will get you the average girls in a bar (you know, the first-chubby kind I talked about). Hot women know their stuff, they’ve been through a lot of guys, lot of players and they know how to read you real well. Let me tell you a little secret…
Very hot women by the age of twenty-one have fucked either very few or very many guys.
For example, you can find hot models that slept with maybe one or two guys that they often met in school and stayed with forever or they’ve banged about forty guys (I personally prefer the second… better sex).
So let’s go back to your question…
The “perfect looking guys” just have one of three things that create attraction, but that’s what? Yes you’ve guessed it… it is just a veneer. Did you ever see a great looking, tall, muscular guy with a war pig? Well I have, and it is not a pretty sight I tell you. You just can’t help but think “that’s not right” you know for a fact how much pain and effort that guy went through to get that body, years and years of gym and it is all wasted on an cake-eating elephant with no self-respect. That is the stuff nightmares are made of. Fuck that, I’d rather cut my dick off than do that.
To get real hot chicks, sure you have to have your “veneer right” but that will last about five minutes (in some cases just five seconds) before she finds your cracks and your whole “game” crumbles.
This is why I keep saying and repeating to guys; to get hot chicks if you “game them” you are fucked. You have no game to “game” hot chicks, you can’t have game for that, they are so fucking better at that game is like me playing football against David Beckham…
Now read this very carefully
The ONLY way to get really hot girls is through inner game
Or paying for it, but that won’t work with some girls because not everything is for sale. I used to teach the “hgame” which is all about dating the most beautiful women on the planet (and before you ask, no I don’t do that anymore and you can’t buy it… not everything is for sale).
But here is what I’ll tell you, here is your challenge; maybe a life long challenge; you must decide right here and right now…
Who do you want to fuck?
If your ultimate goal is to fuck “fives” they you’re good, just work on your presentation, your “game” follow the program and you’ll get there just fine. Don’t worry about things.
But if you want to fuck gorgeous, amazing babes, be surrounded with them and feel all the guys staring at you, envying you, asking themselves a question “who the fuck is that guy?” in that case you need to get your inner game sorted.
Look… read this again; there is no fucking way you’ll be able to have those exquisite girls you see on fashion TV without inner game, no matter how hard you try.
What makes me so sure?
Well, look at this… have you ever met a “ten”… seriously, you must have heard of “marius scale”, a ten would be one of the very few physically perfect women on the planet, I’ll bet you a 100$ that you’ve never had a chance to see one in person.
Anyway, I dated one for a brief while. Have you heard of expression “she stopped traffic”? Well; till that time I just thought that was just an expression, but seriously; guys were stopping cars, shouting at her, honking etc. Fuck man, that was something special.
See, when we met; on our first date I took her to the restaurant and inside was that amazing-looking guy; he was our waiter. He was your typical tall-dark-handsome guy, naturally confident with women, I could just tell he was getting laid like crazy, he had the moves, he could talk, a true player in every sense of the word.
As I sat there, I saw my girl flirting with the guy, it was one of the most amazing experiences I’ve had. In a sense she gave me a real “demo” in front of my eyes of how powerful the real seductress can be. She played the guy softly like a violin; all along he was getting an impression that he was seducing her, the non-verbal communication was thick as cream… but what really happened is that he was totally in her control without knowing it. She just got us some free food on the “house”.
Not even the best natural players on the planet can “outgame” amazingly hot women
The only way to get them is to be firm and solid, have impeccable inner game and be exactly what she needs… a man!
See a strongly feminine woman is looking a strongly masculine man; that’s just nature, you can’t change it, accept it; those are facts of life, just like birth, death, sunrise and sunset.
What makes man a man? Well it is “who you are” deep down inside. We (men) are not built to be attractive, sexy and gentle. We were built to kill beasts and be strong for our women. Why do we (men) all like to go to war and kill other people… it is in our nature, it is who we are. Women seldom do that, and when they do they often look like men anyway (too much testosterone).
It is that thing; that masculinity, that manly strength, power, resolve and stability that she seeks above all other things. But how does she know you have those qualities? Sure you can just tell her and then what?
Have you ever heard of “female intuition”? Well see that is the “super sense” women tend to have and trust above all other senses. There is no way you can play against that. No matter what you say or do, none of that matters. What matters is what her intuition tells her, and if she doesn’t see (feel) you’re that man, you are out; game over.
Have you heard of the phenomenon called “selective hearing”? If you didn’t; just get married and you’ll learn exactly what I’m talking about. This is when the woman hears you but remembers only the words or sentences that are compatible with her intuition. You may tell her the whole story, talk to her for hours but she remembers only three things you said and the rest is filtered out.
Well if you’re not the man, everything you say or do will be filtered out just the same way. You will be filtered out.
So how do you become that man; or rather, how does she test that you are that man? Well she uses not just her intuition but all her senses to discover that, to poke you and prod you deeply, subconsciously, being alert to even the most subtle signs of incongruity and weakness; testing you for any and all cracks and…
At the end if she finds the man, she wants him and will bend over backwards to get him. She will fight for you, she will compete for you and she will do anything to win your attention, your love and affection. Why?
In this age, good men are very fucking hard to find…
How hard it is to find an amazingly beautiful woman? Right! It is fucking hard. Now imagine how hard it is to find an amazing man? It is like fucking impossible with all this “emotional guys” shit going on and metrosexual gay crap turning men into pussy-ass bitches being scared of their own shadows.
You want a really hot girl? There is a way, it is simplest thing and the hardest thing on the planet. Become that man that deserves her. And that is all inside, it is your inner game that needs to get sorted…
I know it may sound scary and hard but you’d be surprised how easy it is once you get there. Being a man, feeling like a man is not difficult at all; look, you are already that. You ARE a man already. If you have a dick and a pair of balls, which is the living proof you are one.
All you need to learn is how to act like one…
How long do you think it takes for the coming of age ceremony, a year, a month? That is what all of it is about, you must learn the rules, apply them and live by the “creed of men” and you’ll have all the hot chicks you want…
Now, don’t get me wrong, there is a bunch of things I’m not telling you here; to get those hot women, there are a few secret components without which it is going to be impossible to get them but however you cut it, inner game is your first and most important step. Without that, you can just forget it and go back to fucking fives.
In the end…
Shit; this started as a simple email and I almost wrote a book there, but I feel you deserve to get those answers. Oh btw, don’t you all think I’ll do that for every question you send me; I’m happy to help but I’ve got a life, lol.
The point which I wanted to get across is, looks, money and personality, yeah that’s important but none of this matters at all if you’ve got the “inner game” right. So how do I get the girls? Well… simple, they come to me…
As for your other question, the “proof” lol, I just love that one. What proof would you like? I have none; you can either choose to believe me or not, regardless of what I show you or tell you, you will use your “intuition” to think whatever you want, so why bother.
But… I’ll leave you with one thought; pictures can be faked, reviews can be scripted, films can be directed and actors can be bought, hey if I don’t sell you something I’m out of business right? That is what you can expect from anyone (including me) trying to sell you workshops, seminars or any other shit you may want to buy
You want to find out the truth? You want to know that thing like that are possible and that you can do this as well?
It’s going to cost you your time and money but you will know! Fuck photos, reviews, films and shit. Don’t look at the shit like that, look at how people live, whom they live with and how they live their lives; then decide what you want to believe or not. That’s what I’d do if I were a sceptic.
I am thirty-six years old (will be 37 soon, so send me a card in October), I’m in a relationship with an actual real high-fashion model that I love and I fuck the hottest women on the planet on the side. Sometimes I help guys with their relationships problems because it amuses me. You want to know the truth? Come over to one of our parties and get to know me, I’d like that.
I am not a collection of circumstances and lucky breaks, I am who I chose to be and you should be to.
The most precious gift we were ever given is a “choice”…
You choose ;-)
marius
